Nine decades have passed, and DJs are still playing “It Had to be You.” That’s because it is that good of a song. The Knot puts it at #21 in their list of best songs for a first dance. It’s such a good song that Michael Bublé and Barbra Streisand sang it as a duet a few years ago. Watch a few excerpts in the video above.
The song is the perfect blend of a great melody by Isham Jones and memorable lyrics by Gus Kahn, with a great hook like this:
It had to be you, it had to be you
I wandered around and finally found, that somebody who
Could make me be true
Could make me feel blue
And even be glad just to be sad, thinking of you …
The song is so timeless that the ageless Tony Bennett cut a duet with country super star, Carrie Underwood (above), and the song works despite the age gap.
A version sung by Frank Sinatra was used in the movie “When Harry Met Sally.” Watch the scene above. It totally works.
Aging rockers like Rod Stewart (above) can’t resist recording this gem.
Let me leave you with the complete version of Michael Bublé and Barbra Streisand’s interpretation (below).
Whatever version you prefer, we’ll have it cued up ready to roll for your first dance!
Don’t you love the songs written by Herman Hupfeld? Wait … what?! Who the heck is he? He’s simply the guy who wrote one of the most beloved songs in American music history, “As Time Goes By.” This blog ranks it as the #1 first dance song ever, and The Knot has it close behind at #3 on their list.
Some of his hits include the renown “When Yuba Plays the Rhumba on the Tuba,” “Untitled,” and “A Hut in Hoboken.” Actually, I’ve never heard of any of his songs other than As Time Goes By, and that’s fine with me. What a classic!
Casablanca made it famous
What’s interesting is that he wrote the song way back in 1931, and it became a modest hit. But then it was featured in the timeless 1942 cinema classic, “Casablanca,” and the rest is history.
The opening lyrics are memorable:
You must remember this,
a kiss is still a kiss,
a sigh is still a sigh.
The fundamental things apply
As Time Goes By.
Here’s the scene that launched the song
Here’s the scene from Casablanca that launched “As Time Goes By” into the realm of the all time greats:
The song drips with romance. That’s why it may just be perfect for your first dance. But you’re faced with a dilemma: which version is right for you? How about a nice jazzy, sophisticated rendition as offered by the late, great Peggy Lee:
Here’s a version I love by Natalie Cole, because it includes the little-sung verse. Well done, Natalie:
You can always count on Andy Williams to treat a romantic ballad with respect. He doesn’t disappoint! Imagine your first dance to his take on “As Time Goes By:”
Carly Simon imbues the song with her distinctive voice:
Do you like nostalgia? You’ll really make a statement if you go with Jimmy Durante’s version. Totally cool!
Let me leave you with a particularly romantic version of this great song, sung by Harry Nilsson and arranged by Gordon Jenkins featuring a full orchestra:
Do any of these renditions of “As Time Goes By” fit your style? Here’s the thing: the song is nice and short, which makes it a very nice first dance song. After all, your guests are chomping at bit to get on the dance floor (especially if we are DJing your wedding!), so three minutes is just about right.
DJ Brian Anderson can play any version you like best
And here’s the other thing: we can play any version of this classic song you like, unlike local bands. (By the way, we love bands … especially the good ones, but they may not know the song, and certainly can’t sing it like Peggy, Natalie, or Andy does!)
I’m in this business because I love music, and I love making brides and grooms happy by playing the perfect songs on their wedding day.
Okay, you’ve listened to the songs above. Who sang it best?
Poor Millennials. They seem to be the butt of a lot of jokes these days. Our guess is that the older generations are just jealous. On the other, hand the culture and technology have changed enough that the Millennial marriage proposal in the video below has just enough plausibility to elicit a good laugh. What do you think?
Hey, but let’s be honest. The Generation Xers, Baby Boomers, and the Silent Generation would kill to have their own marriage proposal captured for posterity in a nice video to share on social media with their aging pals. But back in that “horse and buggy era,” dazzling technology just wasn’t available.
The video really is hysterical because the young woman is obsessed with getting her proposal absolutely perfect at the expense of spontaneity. In a way, DJ Brian Anderson understands her point. In fact, we love a client like her, because we want everything perfect for her wedding reception.
No surprises with DJ Brian Anderson
We’re really, really good at it. We offer planning tools that simplify the whole planning process. There are no surprises. Even more, we connect with your other wedding vendors to be sure we’re all on the same page when it comes to key points in your reception, such as wedding toasts, the first dance, and the cake cutting.
These moments are just as photo/video worthy as your wedding proposal. We’ll MC the event with impeccable timing and tasteful music to enrich your memories for generations to come.
You know what else makes all those older generations jealous? The awesome technology we bring to you wedding celebration, including state-of-the art DJing, complete with clear, controlled sound; decor lighting that transforms a plain hall into a palace; and photo booths. They didn’t have it this good, but you do!
So before we poke too much fun at the millennial marriage proposal above, let’s pause and celebrate just how much better off today’s brides are than yesteryear’s.
A lovely little piece of baroque music written more than three centuries ago was resurrected in a Robert Redford movie and somehow became wedding magic. Yes, Johann Pachebel’s repetitive little ditty known as Pachebel’s Canon is one of the most popular wedding ceremony entrance songs for brides.
Robert Redford resurrected Pachebel’s Canon
In his directorial debut, Robert Redford and his music director, Marvin Hamlisch, used a piece of this music in the Academy Award movie, Ordinary People, as you can see and hear in the clip below:
Although this isn’t a wedding scene, brides-to-be loved the regal, simple melody and made it a wedding staple in American weddings. The tune features an eight note melody line that is repeated 27 times in various configurations. Most wedding ceremonies only require a few repeats for the bride to make her entrance and walk down the aisle to her waiting beloved.
Here is what the original arrangement sounds like:
Here is a version for solo piano. Since most weddings have a pianist, they use this arrangement the most:
When you add a full orchestra, the piece is simply majestic. Listen to the Academy of St. Martin’s in the Field orchestra give it the full treatment:
Can’t afford an orchestra? No problem!
Most brides can’t afford an orchestra, or even a string quartet at their wedding ceremonies. No problem. DJ Brian Anderson provides ceremony music with clear, controlled sound. Call us if you want exactly the music you love played during your wedding ceremony. There’s no need to settle for a pianist when you can have an orchestra.
To be honest, not everyone loves Pachebel’s Canon. Here is comedian/musician Rob Paravonion’s very funny rant on how much he hates the piece:
But don’t let Mr. Paravonion spoil your fun. He’s simply a frustrated cello player. Three centuries of music lovers keep coming back to Pachebel’s Canon in D.
Millennials are interesting. They by and large have similar beliefs on heaven, hell, and miracles as previous generations. They pray. But they don’t attend church regularly, because they’re not all that comfortable with organized religion. Nonetheless, when it comes time for planning their wedding ceremonies, they are totally interested in including popular wedding Bible verses.
As you can see in the accompanying chart, the next generation born after 2000 tend to be a little more prayerful than those born in the 80s or 90s. As we pointed out in a previous blogpost [The changing role of religion in modern weddings], even though Millennials are less religious by some metrics, they typically want to include God in their ceremony to honor the solemnity as well as the joy of the occasion.
Popular wedding Bible verses
We touched upon a few popular verses in a previous post. We barely scratched the surface. For example, savor the logic of this beautiful Jewish scripture from the the Book of Ecclesiastes (4:9)
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?”
Some believe Ecclesiastes was written by King Solomon, considered to be one of the wisest sages of the ancient world. Here’s another thought provoker from the same book (4:12):
“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
So if the first strand is the husband and the second strand is the wife, what is this ‘third’ strand to which Solomon refers? It is God. Couples who invoke this scripture passage are acknowledging that God will be a part of their marriage.
Bible verses for atheists
Suppose you’re an agnostic or an atheist. Does any of this apply to you? Certainly. Wisdom is wisdom, as you can see in this passage written by St. Paul in Romans (13:8):
“Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.”
Psalm 143:8 tenderly reveals how trust is central to loving another, which is why this is a wonderful Bible verse for your wedding ceremony:
“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life.”
The most romantic book in the Bible is Song of Solomon. This passage (4:9) gives you a taste of what is to come:
“You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace.”
I’ve barely scratched the surface. Let me leave you with this beauty written by St. John in 1 John 4:12:
“No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”
God is a mystery to man in so many respects. Religious tradition says that it is through sacred scripture that we get to know Him. That’s why popular wedding Bible verses never grow old. That’s why one of these gems might just be perfect for your wedding ceremony.
The perfect complement to a perfect wedding ceremony is a perfect wedding reception. That’s where we come in. We know how to pack a dance floor with fabulous, customized entertainment. Learn more today without obligation.
Proposing marriage is an art. Should you do it on your knee? Should it be an intimate experience? Or is your romance one that lends itself to a grand, public proposal? Let’s take a look at how they do it in the movies. Here are the top ten marriage proposal movie scenes according to Ms. Mojo’s Youtube channel:
Marriage proposal movie scenes
‘Magical’ marriage proposals
Youtube showcases some interesting proposals, like the one below which features a magic trick. Why not! Love is magical:
Public marriage proposals
Should you propose in public? Only if you’re sure your girl is going to say yes!
Intimate marriage proposals
Most couples prefer more private, personal proposals. For pure romance, check out Haley Reinhardt’s tender music video of her cover of “Fools Rush In.” Beautiful.
Marriage proposal movie scenes are nice, but real life is much better when it comes to creative wedding proposals.
DJ Brian Anderson has a proposal for you. When she says YES, take your wedding celebration to the next level with dance-floor packing wedding entertainment. Entertainment. Makes. The. Event.
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Don’t come across as a “gimme” person! Don’t put your registry info on your wedding invitations. I know it’s so very tempting to discreetly list the URL for your registry at the bottom of your invitations. Don’t! It’s tacky. It’s a wedding etiquette mistake you don’t have to make, because modern technology has solved the problem.
The traditional approach
In the past, a bride simply left registry details with her parents, grandparents, and her wedding party and let word-of-mouth do the rest. That still works. Now, however, wedding couples increasingly publish their own wedding website. Voila! The perfect place to post registry details without being tacky.
The wedding website
Okay, what else should you put in on your wedding website? Tell them a little about you and your fiancée’s love story, how you met, and your background. Everyone’s a sucker for a love story. But don’t go into too much detail, just the major points.
Tell them about your wedding details, where and when with some nice pics. Then you might want to tell them a little about your honeymoon plans, and why you chose the location.
You might include a guest book on your website for your friends to write you a quick note. Your wedding day will seem like a blur, so you’ll cherish the comments friends leave on your website.
So don’t come across as a greedy “gimme” person by listing your registry info on your wedding invitations. That’s a major wedding etiquette mistake. List your wedding website instead.
Speaking of websites, be sure to browse our website for a few minutes. We offer you great wedding advice in our weekly blog. Even more, we offer fabulous, dance-floor-packing wedding entertainment. Check out our availability and package pricing today.
People attend movies to laugh and cry. In a way, they look for some of the same things in a wedding toast, but in a couple of minutes instead of a couple of hours. So the two essential wedding toast ingredients? Sentiment and humor.
Leave out either and your toast is incomplete. Load up on too much of on one or the other and your toast will be lopsided, and may ignominiously crash and burn in uncomfortable snickering … or silence.
Too many toasters don’t know where they’re going in their toast. A nice technique is to begin with a little silly humor. For example:
“I just saw two nuclear technicians getting married. The bride was radiant and the groom was glowing.”
Then “marry” the quip to a little sentiment:
“And you know, [bride’s name], you truly are radiant today. And as for my friend, [groom’s name], we don’t typically use the word “glowing” to describe a groom. But I’ve noticed something about him. Every time your name comes up, his eyes light up. Every time you walk into the room, his eyes light up. Yes, it’s safe to say you’re glowing today, [groom’s name].”
Here’s a good use of wedding humor, compliments of stand-up comedienne, Rita Rudner:
“I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They’ve experience pain and bought jewelry.
Then link the humor to a little sentiment.
“[Groom’s name] never got his ear pierced, but I know he’s experienced some pain in his life. And it simply made him stronger. [Bride’s name], you’re marrying a man of character. When life knocked him down, he dusted himself off and got right back up. That’s the kind of guy I like having as a friend. That’s the kind of man who knows how to love, honor, and cherish a wife, through good times and bad. Get ready for a great life.”
Humor and sentiment make a nice one/two punch when delivering a wedding toast.
How long does it take to make a great toast?
Nighy uses subtle humor when he references B.B. King, as if everyone in the world should know that’s one of the three men he honors most. And then he links it to his son with quiet tenderness.
The two essential wedding toast ingredients? Humor and sentiment, dispensed in perfect proportions.
Can a wedding toast be more than 65 seconds? Sure, but keep it down to a few minutes at most. After listening to several toasts, your guests will be itching to get onto the dance floor. That’s where we come in. DJ Brian Anderson provides the perfect balance of wedding entertainment that knows how to pack a dance floor. And you’ll love the high quality and fabulous value of our package pricing. Learn more without obligation.
As you plan your wedding spend, you need the answer to a key question: who is going to pay for your wedding?
If it’s your deep-pocketed parents, your wedding spend may be higher than what you and your betrothed could afford if you’re paying for it alone.
On the other hand, if the two of you are older with well-established careers, you may be comfortable enough to enjoy a wedding spend without scrimping much.
The Knot surveyed 13,000 couples who got married last year to determine who paid for their weddings. Here is what they found out:
√ The bride’s parents paid for 44.5% of the weddings.
√ The bride and groom paid for the wedding themselves 41.1% of the time.
√ The groom’s parents paid the wedding 12.7% of the time.
√ Other persons paid for their wedding in 1.79% of these weddings.
Pros & Cons
There are pros and cons to having parents handle the wedding spend. On the pro side, they may have deeper pockets which allows you to more fully indulge your wedding dreams.
On the other hand, parents can then exercise more control over who gets invited. You’ve heard about these conflicts a dozen times. The daughter has to cut some of her friends from the guest list to accommodate Mom and Dad’s old friends and business associates.
As you plan your wedding spend, keep this in mind.
Traditional wedding protocols have evolved over the years as to whom should pay for your wedding. For example, here are items and services the bride and her family typically pay for:
- church/synagogue/ceremony location
- organist and musicians
- wedding gown, veil, accessories, trousseau
- flowers, bouquets, corsages for attendants
- photography and videography
- engagement party
- professional wedding services
- groom’s ring
Here are the items and services the groom and his family typically pay for:
- marriage license and officiant fee
- groom’s attire
- bride’s bouquet
- boutonnieres for men
- corsages for mothers and grandmothers
- rehearsal dinner
- DJ and/or band
- bride’s rings
And then there are some miscellaneous expenses others pay for such as:
√ your attendants pay for their own clothing and shoes
√ your maid or matron of honor hosts the bridal shower and bachelorette party
√ by the same token, the best man and groomsmen host the bachelor party
Who is responsible for your wedding spend? As you can see above, tradition and reality don’t always align. Your situation is unique, except for one single factor: entertainment makes the event. Don’t ever scrimp there!
And for dance floor-packing entertainment, DJ Brian Anderson is your go-to DJ entertainment company specializing in weddings. Learn more without obligation. Or give us a call at 256-638-3535. We love questions!
Have you ever thought about why people dance? Don’t you think dancing is all about joy? Sure, it’s good exercise. Sure, it is artistic. But dancing is much more. Dancing unites people in a joyful expression of celebratory exuberance, especially at weddings. That’s why most wedding celebrations build towards a wedding dance.
But there’s a catch. You’ve got to get your guests to the dance floor first. That’s why a great DJ who specializes in weddings (like us) is vital to the success of a wedding dance. DJ Brian Anderson has the entertainment and people skills to get people out of their seats and onto the dance floor.
The dance video that captivated the world
There’s a video that went viral a number of years ago called “Where the hell is Matt?” I’m sure you saw it. This guy, Matt Harding, did something totally crazy when he travelled across the entire world and simply danced, as you can see in the video above.
He danced in Mumbai, India and Paro Bhutan.
He danced in Northern Ireland and Zanzibar.
And he danced in Lancelin, Australia and Lisse, the Netherlands.
In all, he danced across the word, doing his hokey jig in 42 different countries. He even danced in the demilitarized zone between North and South Korea. Wow!
People around the world came out in droves to dance with this guy. The unbridled exuberance of this union of cultures, united simply by dance, captivated the world. Fifty-one million people have viewed his video to date.
It’s one of those videos that is hard to stop watching, even if you’ve seen it dozens of times (like I have!).
Look at the faces of every single one of the dancers: sheer joy animates them. As for Matt, his dancing isn’t exactly Fred Astaire or Michael Jackson, which makes it all the more endearing to viewers.
DJ Brian Anderson liberates your shy guests from their seats!
You’ll have a whole bunch of people at your wedding like Matt who may not be polished dancers. But all it takes is a little coaxing, done without the least pressure, to liberate these shy dancers from their seats. That’s what DJ Brian Anderson knows how to do.
Have you ever been to a wedding where a small group of younger people get up on the dance floor while the more “mature” guests remain glued to their seats? Your wedding dance will be so much better if you can get ALL of your guests united on the dance floor.
That’s the gold standard for a legendary wedding dance, and that’s what we specialize in.
Unleash the sheer joy of dancing at YOUR wedding dance, like Matt Harding does in his video above. Call the wedding dance specialists: DJ Brian Anderson at 256-638-3535. You can check our availability online.
[Be sure to check out an earlier blogpost, “Your first dance song done exactly the way you want it.”]